This movie paints such a pretty typical picture of what we, Americans, see as love. It was a decent movie but it disgusted me. As a young man in a relationship that has a ton of potential to go somewhere most relationships don’t get to, I want to see love portrayed as it is “only in movies”. This cinematic adventure is too worldly for me. I am into the movies that most people don’t like because they aren’t believable. I don’t want to watch believable; I live in believable. I want to watch fairy tales. And it isn’t Snow White anymore; it’s real movies, movies like Definitely, Maybe. But Definitely, Maybe didn’t do it for me. Before a tear began to drip out of my eye the pissed off part of brain was triggered. I just felt hopeless about the entire situation. You just have to watch the movie to know what I’m talking about but you can rest assured that I won’t be empathetic with a character that reaps what he sows. I just won’t.
And it isn’t that I know love and life is so hopeless that the only chance to see something happy is in a movie. I know there is good stuff out there; I’m going to be an example, myself. I just like to see movies that give an example of healthiness also. The world is influenced by this stuff and with movies like Definitely, Maybe then nobody will ever learn.
Obviously there are better alternatives than movies to learn your life lessons the easy way, one being uhhh, the local church. I won’t be naive when it comes to that either but I will keep my big dreams. Dreams that only God can make come true. (And he will)
What would the world look like if we started learning from the church rather than the big screen?